Saturday, December 11, 2010

Getting back Life.

To forgive someone doesn’t mean condoning their actions। It just means absolving yourself of the hurt and pain and getting back control over your own life and emotions . It means easing the burden of revenge and hatred from your shoulders and getting on with life.

WHEN you are smarting from pain inflicted by someone, and trying to figure out ‘why’, the most difficult thing to do is the thing they call Divine — to forgive. And yet, try it out. It’s in fact the sweetest form of revenge!

You don’t forgive for another; you do it for yourself — to come to terms with your emotions and to attempt a closure on an episode that refuses to let go of you. If you don’t do that, years later you would still be smarting from an action, stuck in a painful time zone, while the perpetrator of all that pain has moved on and put the incident behind him.

So, rather than him, you are the one living out the consequences of his action! Forgiving someone is the best way of stepping neatly out of that time zone and ensuring that they, rather than you, suffer the fall-out of the episode.

Regards, Ravi

Friday, December 10, 2010

Journey of a lost Traveler

From where I started to where I am today,

The journey has been long & tiring.

From nothing to something I am today

It’s not been an easy journey.



My tryst with luck, hard work, and destiny

So futile yet demanding and arduous.

It’s not been an easy journey.

For a while I got my love, friends, and relations too

I lost them too …I feel no one was true.



My life beckoning me to start all over again

With whom I could start the journey again

I know no one will come

While I will miss everyone,

Now, I want to move on without anyone

Even without my love, & friends.



As life moves on; I move on with it

To a journey that never concludes

Walking alone on this path with guts and determination

I want to continue the journey again

A journey where you may remember me

As the man who touched your heart…someway